Speaking of healing
When we believe that ‘life happens TO us’, we believe that we are the victims of life, who need to be somehow helped/ saved/ healed. This is a paradigm of life that most of us dwell in. And as long as we are in this paradigm, we can be exploited.
When we “shift” our paradigm to ‘life happens FOR us’, there is excitement and hope in everything that happens – after all it is happening FOR us. OMG! What is it bringing? What is the message? What is the gift? In this paradigm, there is nothing to be healed; only to celebrate.
As I shifted from the first paradigm to the next, I stopped healing. I stopped being a healer. I became a coach. And a coach is always someone who knows all the nuances of ‘the game’ rather well. If not, s/he cannot connect every game with the game of life.
Which paradigm are you in?